✦ Emotional Intelligence · Intimacy · Communication
Heartbeat Decode · Love & EQ Notes
A practical EQ-and-love notebook: fix yourself, be sincerely seen, understand differences, resolve conflict, connect deeply, manage long-term. First 3 episodes free; later ones unlock with a coffee for the author.
First 4 episodes are free. Later chapters unlock with a coffee for the author ☕️ (from ¥1, no upper limit). The author is exempt.
- 01 (1) Self-Awareness & Inner Frame — Fix Yourself Before the Relationship Free
Separation of tasks, attachment styles, three daily stabilizing moves.
- 02 (2) Attraction & First Contact — Attraction Is a Learnable Behavior, Not a Gift Free
First impressions, availability, investment and sincerity.
- 03 (3) Gender Communication Differences — Conflict Is Not Right vs Wrong, but Different Rules Free
Turn the "listen" vs "fix" gap into collaboration.
- 04 (4) Nonviolent Communication & Crucial Conversations — Turn Conflict into Consensus ☕️ Coffee
Observe-feel-need-request, plus crucial conversations.
- 05 (5) Winning Favor & Deep Connection — Make the Other "Become Better With You" ☕️ Coffee
Specific praise, healthy vulnerability, shared meaning.
- 06 (6) Influence & Long-Term Relationship Management — Let Sincerity Be Better Received ☕️ Coffee
Long-term management, influence without manipulation.
- 07 (7) Weekend Breakout in Practice — Zhongkelu Schedule, 12 Ways to Meet Girls, Cost Tiers Free
Fri 18:00 to Sunday plan, 12 channels, 4 cost tiers.
✦ Interactive (中文)
🧩 爱情数学：九章 × 十二个模型 The Mathematics of Love — 9 chapters turned into 12 computable models, each with numbers / how to use / when not to use / does it work. → 🧬 四型人格测试 20 questions → Explorer / Builder / Director / Negotiator, with instant results and dating tells. →Found these useful? Buy the author a coffee ☕️
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⚠️ For personal growth only — not a substitute for counseling or professional advice.